When her granddaughter became seriously ill, Louisa, a 68-year-old grandmother, decided to take her dream vacation to Paris rather than helping with the medical bills. She was surprised by what transpired next and shared her story to get opinions. Louisa and her late husband had always wanted to visit Paris, but life’s obligations prevented them from doing so. After her husband’s death, Louisa decided it was time to realize their shared dream, so she saved money and organized the trip, viewing it as a way to honor her husband’s memory and find personal happiness.
Her 12-year-old granddaughter then developed a serious illness. Louisa was conflicted about helping her daughter with the medical expenses. “I won’t give up my last chance of joy!” she said to her daughter after giving it some serious thought. Devastated, her daughter walked away crying.
When Louisa came home to see her daughter packing her things, things took a drastic turn. Louisa was shocked and inquired as to what was going on, but she got a chilly answer. She began to doubt her choice and its effect on her family after the tragedy.
Louisa’s experience demonstrates the difficult balancing act between one’s familial obligations and personal goals. Others may sympathize with her wish to take advantage of a long-awaited chance, while others may condemn her decision. How do you view her predicament?