The devoted mother decided to give her house to her son and his young wife so they could comfortably start a family, but things took a turn Josie wouldn’t have believed in a million years. She wrote to us to share her story and ask for advice. Betrayal is one of the most devastating feelings, but it takes on an even more terrible dimension if it comes from a close family member.
My daughter-in-law said, “We lied about starting a family right away. We are not ready yet; we are too young.” She added, “But my mom is alone. We have a big house now, so she will come live with us.” I was incensed and told her that I didn’t agree to this arrangement, reminding her that it is still technically my house. My son then said, “My MIL is much more in need of us than you are. She’s my family too now and I have to take care of her.” I replied, “I didn’t leave my home to have her live with you.”
I feel betrayed and heartbroken. What should I do?