When she changed her gender to become a woman, she declined to be a guy, yet A trans influencer brazenly suggested that males nowadays should stop expecting the “princess treatment” because they are too sensitive.
Ali C. Lopez of Arizona is no stranger to controversy. She bravely revealed her story as a social media star and proud plus-size transgender woman, enthralling audiences with her unvarnished honesty and audacious viewpoint.
Lopez gained notoriety following her appearance on the Whatever podcast, which features heated discussions on issues like feminism, gender roles, and traditional values.
Online attention was drawn to her frank answers during the podcast, especially when asked to rate her appearance.
When Lopez famously referred to herself as “a fat f***ing ten,” the now-famous meme “Gorlock the Destroyer” was born.
Lopez acknowledges that although the name hurt at first, she is attempting to accept it but still finds the Gorlock moniker unnerving.
“To be really honest, there are still days when I find it annoying that I’m referred to as that. I even wondered at one point if I should embrace [‘Gorlock the Destroyer’] directly. Lopez said, “I don’t even care,” to Fox News Digital.

But, the 25-year-old is enjoying the attention. “I feel like [it’s]… a little bit of an out-of-body experience, or you’re just, like, there’s, ‘No way that’s me.’ It’s a crazy feeling. And honestly, I’m still fairly new to [being viral],” she said about her online fame. “There’s good, bad, exciting, nervous. It’s just all over the place.”
‘Princess treatment’
The hype surrounding Lopez doesn’t stop at her Gorlock identity, and her 502,000 TikTok followers can’t get enough of her content, many posts that collect millions of likes.
From beauty tutorials and lifestyle tips to heartfelt videos on her transition, Lopez – who calls herself a “certified baddie” – offers a unique blend of relatability and inspiration. However, it’s her candid discussions about dating and relationships that have sparked the most heated debates.
The transgender lady has been outspoken about her dating difficulties and insights, criticizing the fall in traditional masculinity as having an effect on contemporary relationships.
Lopez said Fox News, “It’s getting out of control,” adding that she is looking for a partner who can perform chores that were previously thought to be traditionally masculine.
However, Lopez says it’s hard to discover those days.
“You had better be able to do more than my dad can do, at least in my opinion. For me, not you, if I need to call my father to do something. Why have you come here? Lopez went on,
She continues, “I just see a lot of men expecting women to do almost nothing in the relationship and expecting them to go above and beyond.” Additionally, I adore relationships that have a hint of gender role. I enjoy a little bit of toxic masculinity, such as “I’m the man and I’m going to take charge,” even if I’m not a huge fan of it.
What people are saying
There was a lot of animosity and some appreciation for Lopez’s worldview.
“Well, I’m not sure where to begin. Why would anyone be influenced by anything coming from this person? Perhaps she should engage in some introspection regarding dating issues,” comments one netizen.
According to a second, who compares her body to Humpty Dumpty, “…and all the king’s horses and all the king’s men.”
One troll makes reference to Jabba the Hutt from the Star Wars franchise in the comments section of a TikTok video that has received 9.8 million views: The troll writes, “Jabba won’t live past 40 with that lifestyle.” “The confidence is amazing,” a second person says. I’m proud of you, Jabba.
Others, meanwhile, leapt to the defense of the plus-sized trans influencer.
“You look fantastic, girl! Don’t allow these people to depress you! One comments, “I’m sorry people are so mean, you’re so pretty,” and the other shares.